Tommy moved to Tulsa from Wagoner in 1983. He married his wife, Colleen, in 1981. He was baptized and became a member of Sts. Peter and Paul Church in 1983. Tommy and Colleen have 5 children, 14 grandchildren, and 5 great grandchildren. He retired from his position as business manager at a car dealership in 1991. In 1993 he was ordained as a Deacon. For relaxation, Tommy likes to play golf.